Sponsored By: Bishop O’Gorman Catholic Schools
Author: Jenni Struck, Director of Admissions
Simple steps to ease the transition for both students and parents
Whether it’s your child’s very first or the next step in their journey, starting a new school year can come with lots of emotions: excitement, nervousness, and everything in between. The good news? There are some easy things you can do at home to help your child feel confident, prepared, and excited for a successful school year!
Before School Starts: Build Confidence Through Structure & Choice
1. Let Them be Part of the Process
Heading to the store to pick up supplies? Invite your child to help! Whether it’s choosing a fun pencil box, an eraser in their favorite color, or a backpack they love, giving kids a say in the back-to-school process helps build excitement and ownership.
“If your child is a little apprehensive about starting school, taking them to get their supplies could help build the excitement,” says teacher and mom Kim Nelson. “It could even be a great conversation starter with a classmate as to why they chose what they did.”
2. Practice Social Interactions
Before school starts, consider setting up playdates or group meetups with children around the same age. Practicing simple social skills like sharing, taking turns, and using kind words can give your child a confidence boost before they step into the classroom. Your own school might even set up get-togethers throughout the summer!
3. Ease Into a Routine Early
A few weeks before school begins, start practicing school-day routines. Set a consistent bedtime and morning wake-up time, rehearse the steps for getting ready, and even talk about where school items will go when they come home.
“As a teacher and mom of a soon to be kindergartener, I know how routines can impact a day. I feel our mornings at home are more successful when we have a set routine. Children thrive with structured routines,” Nelson explains. “If they’re set in place before school begins, it helps make the transition smoother.”
A designated spot in the house—such as a bin or hook for backpacks, folders, and papers—can also reduce stress and keep mornings running smoothly.
During the School Year: Encourage Communication, Independence & Support
4. Talk About the Day
Make it a habit to ask your child about school—and really listen. Some days they may be full of stories; other days, they might need some space. Either way, keeping the lines of communication open helps them feel supported and valued.
5. Foster Independence With Age-Appropriate Tasks
One of the biggest ways to set your child up for success is to give them responsibility. Start with small tasks: packing their own snack, checking their folder, or grabbing their snow gear.
“Both as a mom and teacher, I know that transferring independence and responsibilities to your child can be difficult. Sometimes it’s easier to just grab their water bottle, snack, and lunch box instead of making it their responsibility,” says Nelson. “However, once in the classroom without their grown-up to give step by step guidance, it can cause a bump in the child’s day. They should be able to follow simple teacher directives independently, and by letting them be responsible for age appropriate tasks at home like making sure they have their snow gear, they will begin to feel a sense of independence. Of course an adult should always be available to guide and support, but letting them start to do the small tasks helps build an independent learner.”
6. Stay Connected With Your Child’s Teacher
If you ever have questions or concerns—whether about academics or how your child is feeling socially—don’t hesitate to reach out.
“My best advice is to ask right away,” Nelson shares. “We will be able to share information, answer your questions, and possibly provide helpful tips. Our job is to make sure each child is successful and we are meeting them where they’re at academically, socially and emotionally.”
And don’t be afraid to share if something felt “off” in your morning. Teachers are often quick to notice when a student is having a tough day—and a heads-up helps them offer extra support.
Starting school is a big milestone for your child—and for you, too! With some thoughtful preparation, strong routines, and open communication, you’re giving your child exactly what they need to step into school with confidence, curiosity, and joy.
Ready to take the next step with Bishop O’Gorman Catholic Schools? We’re here to walk with you every step of the way. Our Admissions team is happy to answer your questions, schedule a tour, or help you enroll.
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