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There’s something about a crackling fire, cool fall air, and cozy blankets that makes a backyard bonfire the perfect way to gather with family and friends. Living in the Midwest can have some downfalls, looking at you -30 windchill weather. But, living where we get to fully experience all four seasons means we have truly spectacular falls! A bonfire on a crisp fall night is a classic midwest moment that you don’t want to miss.

For even more fall fun, check out our Fall Headquarters! Here you can find things like Sioux Falls Area Guides to Fall Festivals, Corn Mazes, and Pumpkin Patches. You can also find fall recipes like pumpkin spice creamer and fun crafts like our fall leaf contact paper craft

Whether you’re planning a small family night or inviting neighbors over, hosting a bonfire doesn’t have to be complicated. With a little planning, you can make it an event that’s warm, fun, and a blast for everyone.

Bonfire Safety First

Before anything else, think safety. Use a fire pit or designated bonfire ring, keep water or a fire extinguisher nearby, and make sure kids know to keep a safe distance. If you’re roasting marshmallows, long roasting sticks keep little hands away from the flames.

If you know you will have little ones running around, consider a fire pit with a screen. While the screen will not save anyone from burns if they touch it, it will help them not fall into the fire. 

Tip for Sioux Falls Area Families: Many local hardware stores, like Ace, carry affordable portable fire pits if you don’t already have one.

Campfire in the backyard in a fire pit

Cozy Comforts

Encourage guests to bundle up with blankets, flannels, and maybe even bring their own lawn chairs. For extra coziness, set out a basket of blankets or outdoor pillows so everyone has a warm spot to snuggle in.

Tip: Don’t forget that South Dakota fall nights can dip into the 40s quickly, even if the day was warm, so remind guests to layer up.

Fun Food Ideas

No bonfire is complete without snacks. Go classic with s’mores, or mix it up with fun variations:

  • S’mores bar: Set out graham crackers, marshmallows, chocolate bars, and extras like peanut butter cups, cookies, or caramel squares. 
  • Hot dogs over the fire: Easy, fun, and kid-approved.
  • Warm drinks: Apple cider from places like Country Apple Orchard or Cherry Rock Farm makes for a true South Dakota fall treat.

Light Up Your Backyard

As the sun sets, add string lights, lanterns, or even glow sticks for kids to keep the backyard inviting and safe. A little ambient light keeps the atmosphere fun without taking away from the stars above.

If you love hosting in your backyard, these string lights are the perfect way to have some cozy lighting on with a click of a remote. 

Tip for Sioux Falls Area Families: On especially clear nights, families in Sioux Falls might even catch a view of the Milky Way just outside city limits, a great excuse to turn off the backyard lights for a bit of stargazing.

Family outside at fire singing with guitar

Fall Backyard Bonfire Games and Activities

Bonfires are all about connection. Try some simple games everyone can enjoy:

  • Storytelling: Take turns telling silly, spooky, or family-favorite stories.
  • Read Aloud: For families that love reading, a read aloud around the fire is a fabulous place to listen to a book. Reading an adventurous tale under the stars with the sound of a crackling fire sets the scene quite well. Consider books like The Witches by Roald Dahl or the Little House in the Big Woods by Laura Ingalls Wilder. 
  • Flashlight tag: A fun way for kids to burn off energy. Make sure the boundaries for playing are clearly defined with lights and the area is free from anything that could be potentially dangerous!
  • Music or sing-alongs: A guitar, a speaker with a fall playlist, or even just a round of campfire songs.
  • Families can even add a South Dakota twist: Sharing local folklore or spooky legends if your family/friends are up for it!

Making Memories is What it’s About

Think about little extras that elevate the night:

  • A caramel apple station with apples from local orchards. This old fashioned caramel apple dip is always a hit! 
  • A photo corner with pumpkins or cornstalks from your favorite fall festival.
  • A gratitude time where everyone shares something they’re thankful for a meaningful tradition as Thanksgiving approaches.

Keep It Simple

The best fall backyard bonfires aren’t about being perfect; they’re about enjoying the season and making memories together. Whether it’s a Friday night family tradition or a once-a-year neighborhood bash, gather your people, light a fire, and let fall in South Dakota do the rest.